Ella Verbsrelajarse to relax (oneself) Regular AR Verb
At a glance: Relajarse (to relax (oneself)) is a reflexive regular -AR verb in Spanish. In the present tense: me relajo, te relajas, se relaja, nos relajamos, os relajáis, se relajan. Because it is fully regular, its endings apply directly to hundreds of other -AR verbs.

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The Indicative Present of relajarse is used to talk about situations, events or thoughts that are happening now or in the near future. It is also used to talk about facts and truths. For example, “me relajo”, meaning “I relax”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Present is known as "El Presente".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me relajo | I relax |
| Tú | te relajas | you relax |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se relaja | s/he relaxes |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos relajamos | we relax |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os relajáis | you (plural) relax |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se relajan | they relax |
How it’s built: Regular: stem relaj- plus the -ar endings. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Preterite of relajarse is used to talk about actions completed in the past, at a specific point in time. For example, “me relajé”, meaning “I relaxed”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Preterite is known as "El Pretérito Indefinido".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me relajé | I relaxed |
| Tú | te relajaste | you relaxed |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se relajó | s/he relaxed |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos relajamos | we relaxed |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os relajasteis | you (plural) relaxed |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se relajaron | they relaxed |
How it’s built: Regular: stem relaj- plus the -ar endings. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Imperfect of relajarse is used to describe regular and repeated actions that happened in the past and descriptions of things you used to do. For example, “me relajaba”, meaning “I used to relax”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Imperfect is known as "El Pretérito Imperfecto".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me relajaba | I used to relax |
| Tú | te relajabas | you used to relax |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se relajaba | s/he used to relax |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos relajábamos | we used to relax |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os relajabais | you (plural) used to relax |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se relajaban | they used to relax |
How it’s built: Regular: stem relaj- plus the -ar endings. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Present Continuous of relajarse is used to talk about something that is happening continuously or right now. For example, “me estoy relajando”, meaning “I am relaxing”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Present Continuous is known as "El Presente Progresivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me estoy relajando | I am relaxing |
| Tú | te estás relajando | you are relaxing |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se está relajando | s/he is relaxing |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos estamos relajando | we are relaxing |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os estáis relajando | you (plural) are relaxing |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se están relajando | they are relaxing |
How it’s built: Estar in the present (estoy, estás, está, estamos, estáis, están) plus the gerund relajando. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Informal Future of relajarse is used to talk about something that will happen in the future, especially in the near future. For example, “me voy a relajar”, meaning “I am going to relax”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Informal Future is known as "El Futuro Próximo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me voy a relajar | I am going to relax |
| Tú | te vas a relajar | you are going to relax |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se va a relajar | s/he is going to relax |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos vamos a relajar | we are going to relax |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os vais a relajar | you (plural) are going to relax |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se van a relajar | they are going to relax |
How it’s built: Ir in the present (voy, vas, va, vamos, vais, van), then a, then the infinitive relajar. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Future of relajarse is used to talk about something that will happen in the future. For example, “me relajaré”, meaning “I will relax”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Future is known as "El Futuro Simple".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me relajaré | I will relax |
| Tú | te relajarás | you will relax |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se relajará | s/he will relax |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos relajaremos | we will relax |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os relajaréis | you (plural) will relax |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se relajarán | they will relax |
How it’s built: Regular: the infinitive relajar plus the future endings. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Conditional of relajarse is used to talk about something that may happen in the future, hypothesis and probabilities. For example, “me relajaría”, meaning “I would relax”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Conditional is known as "El Condicional Simple".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me relajaría | I would relax |
| Tú | te relajarías | you would relax |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se relajaría | s/he would relax |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos relajaríamos | we would relax |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os relajaríais | you (plural) would relax |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se relajarían | they would relax |
How it’s built: Regular: the infinitive relajar plus the conditional endings. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Present Perfect of relajarse is used to describe actions that started recently (in the past) and are still happening now or things that have been done recently. For example, “me he relajado”, meaning “I have relaxed”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Present Perfect is known as "El Pretérito Perfecto".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me he relajado | I have relaxed |
| Tú | te has relajado | you have relaxed |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se ha relajado | s/he has relaxed |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos hemos relajado | we have relaxed |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os habéis relajado | you (plural) have relaxed |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se han relajado | they have relaxed |
How it’s built: Haber in the present (he, has, ha, hemos, habéis, han) plus the past participle relajado. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Past Perfect of relajarse is used to talk about actions that happened before another action in the past. For example, “me había relajado”, meaning “I had relaxed”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Past Perfect is known as "El Pretérito Pluscuamperfecto".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me había relajado | I had relaxed |
| Tú | te habías relajado | you had relaxed |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se había relajado | s/he had relaxed |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos habíamos relajado | we had relaxed |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os habíais relajado | you (plural) had relaxed |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se habían relajado | they had relaxed |
How it’s built: Haber in the imperfect (había, habías, había, habíamos, habíais, habían) plus the past participle relajado. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Future Perfect of relajarse is used to talk about something that will have happened in the future after something else has already happened. For example, “me habré relajado”, meaning “I will have relaxed”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Future Perfect is known as "El Futuro Perfecto".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me habré relajado | I will have relaxed |
| Tú | te habrás relajado | you will have relaxed |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se habrá relajado | s/he will have relaxed |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos habremos relajado | we will have relaxed |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os habréis relajado | you (plural) will have relaxed |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se habrán relajado | they will have relaxed |
How it’s built: Haber in the future (habré, habrás, habrá, habremos, habréis, habrán) plus the past participle relajado. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Conditional Perfect of relajarse is used to talk about something that would have happened in the past but didn’t due to another action. For example, “me habría relajado”, meaning “I would have relaxed”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Conditional Perfect is known as "El Condicional Perfecto".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me habría relajado | I would have relaxed |
| Tú | te habrías relajado | you would have relaxed |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se habría relajado | s/he would have relaxed |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos habríamos relajado | we would have relaxed |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os habríais relajado | you (plural) would have relaxed |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se habrían relajado | they would have relaxed |
How it’s built: Haber in the conditional (habría, habrías, habría, habríamos, habríais, habrían) plus the past participle relajado. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
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The Subjunctive Present is used to talk about situations of uncertainty, or emotions such as wishes, desires and hopes. It differs from the indicative mood due to the uncertainty of the events which are being spoken about. For example, “me relaje”, meaning “I relax”.
In Spanish, the Subjunctive Present is known as "El Presente de Subjuntivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me relaje | I relax |
| Tú | te relajes | you relax |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se relaje | s/he relaxes |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos relajemos | we relax |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os relajéis | you (plural) relax |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se relajen | they relax |
How it’s built: Regular: stem relaj- plus the -ar subjunctive endings. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Subjunctive Imperfect is used to speak about unlikely or uncertain events in the past or to cast an opinion (emotional) about something that happened in the past. For example, “me relajara”, meaning “I relaxed”.
In Spanish, the Subjunctive Imperfect is known as "El Imperfecto Subjuntivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me relajara | I relaxed |
| Tú | te relajaras | you relaxed |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se relajara | s/he relaxed |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos relajáramos | we relaxed |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os relajarais | you (plural) relaxed |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se relajaran | they relaxed |
How it’s built: Regular: the ellas/ellos preterite, relajaron, without -ron, plus the -ra endings; nosotros adds an accent (relajáramos). The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Subjunctive Future is used to speak about hypothetical situations, and actions/events that may happen in the future. For example, “me relajare”, meaning “I will relax”.
In Spanish, the Subjunctive Future is known as "El Futuro de Subjuntivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me relajare | I will relax |
| Tú | te relajares | you will relax |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se relajare | s/he will relax |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos relajáremos | we will relax |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os relajareis | you (plural) will relax |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se relajaren | they will relax |
How it’s built: Regular: the ellas/ellos preterite, relajaron, without -ron, plus the -re endings; nosotros adds an accent (relajáremos). The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Subjunctive Present Perfect is used to describe past actions or events that are still connected to the present day and to speak about an action that will have happened by a certain time in the future. For example, “me haya relajado”, meaning “I have relaxed”.
In Spanish, the Subjunctive Present Perfect is known as "El Pretérito Perfecto de Subjuntivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me haya relajado | I have relaxed |
| Tú | te hayas relajado | you have relaxed |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se haya relajado | s/he has relaxed |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos hayamos relajado | we have relaxed |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os hayáis relajado | you (plural) have relaxed |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se hayan relajado | they have relaxed |
How it’s built: Haber in the subjunctive present (haya, hayas, haya, hayamos, hayáis, hayan) plus the past participle relajado. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Subjunctive Past Perfect is used to speak about hypothetical situations, and actions/events that occurred before other actions/events in the past. For example, “me hubiera relajado”, meaning “I had relaxed”.
In Spanish, the Subjunctive Past Perfect is known as "El Pretérito Pluscuamperfecto de Subjuntivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me hubiera relajado | I had relaxed |
| Tú | te hubieras relajado | you had relaxed |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se hubiera relajado | s/he had relaxed |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos hubiéramos relajado | we had relaxed |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os hubierais relajado | you (plural) had relaxed |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se hubieran relajado | they had relaxed |
How it’s built: Haber in the subjunctive imperfect (hubiera, hubieras, hubiera, hubiéramos, hubierais, hubieran) plus the past participle relajado. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Subjunctive Future Perfect is used to speak about something that will have happened if a hypothetical situations occurs in the future. For example, “me hubiere relajado”, meaning “I will have relaxed”.
In Spanish, the Subjunctive Future Perfect is known as "El Futuro Perfecto de Subjuntivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me hubiere relajado | I will have relaxed |
| Tú | te hubieres relajado | you will have relaxed |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se hubiere relajado | s/he will have relaxed |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos hubiéremos relajado | we will have relaxed |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os hubiereis relajado | you (plural) will have relaxed |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se hubieren relajado | they will have relaxed |
How it’s built: Haber in the subjunctive future (hubiere, hubieres, hubiere, hubiéremos, hubiereis, hubieren) plus the past participle relajado. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Imperative Affirmative is used to give orders and commands, to tell someone to do something. For example, “relájese”, meaning “(to you formal) relax!”.
In Spanish, the Imperative Affirmative is known as "El Imperativo Afirmativo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | - | - |
| Tú | relájate | (to you) relax! |
| Ella / Él / Usted | relájese | (to you formal) relax! |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | relajémonos | let's relax! |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | relajaos | (to you plural) relax! |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | relájense | (to you plural formal) relax! |
How it’s built: Tú takes the ella/él present and attaches te (relájate); usted and ustedes take the subjunctive present and attach se (relájese, relájense); nosotros takes the subjunctive present, drops the s and attaches nos (relajémonos); vosotros drops the final r of the infinitive and attaches os (relajaos).
The Imperative Negative is used to give orders and commands, telling someone not to do something. For example, “no se relaje”, meaning “(to you formal) don't relax!”.
In Spanish, the Imperative Negative is known as "El Imperativo Negativo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | - | - |
| Tú | no te relajes | (to you) don't relax! |
| Ella / Él / Usted | no se relaje | (to you formal) don't relax! |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | no nos relajemos | let's not relax! |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | no os relajéis | (to you plural) don't relax! |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | no se relajen | (to you plural formal) don't relax! |
How it’s built: No plus the subjunctive present: no te relajes, no se relaje, no nos relajemos, no os relajéis, no se relajen.
Relajarse is a fully regular -AR reflexive verb. It follows the standard -AR conjugation pattern in every tense and mood without any stem changes, spelling changes, or irregular forms. This makes it a model verb for learning the -AR conjugation system.
In the present tense (presente), relajarse is conjugated as: yo me relajo, tú te relajas, él/ella/usted se relaja, nosotros nos relajamos, vosotros os relajáis, ellos/ellas/ustedes se relajan. The present tense is used To talk about situations, events or thoughts that are happening now or in the near future. It is also used to talk about facts and truths.
In the preterite (pretérito indefinido), relajarse is conjugated as: yo me relajé, tú te relajaste, él/ella/usted se relajó, nosotros nos relajamos, vosotros os relajasteis, ellos/ellas/ustedes se relajaron. The preterite is used To talk about actions completed in the past, at a specific point in time.
In the imperfect (pretérito imperfecto), relajarse is conjugated as: yo me relajaba, tú te relajabas, él/ella/usted se relajaba, nosotros nos relajábamos, vosotros os relajabais, ellos/ellas/ustedes se relajaban. The imperfect is used To describe regular and repeated actions that happened in the past and descriptions of things you used to do.
In the future tense (futuro simple), relajarse is conjugated as: yo me relajaré, tú te relajarás, él/ella/usted se relajará, nosotros nos relajaremos, vosotros os relajaréis, ellos/ellas/ustedes se relajarán. The future tense is used To talk about something that will happen in the future.
In the present subjunctive (subjuntivo presente), relajarse is conjugated as: yo me relaje, tú te relajes, él/ella/usted se relaje, nosotros nos relajemos, vosotros os relajéis, ellos/ellas/ustedes se relajen. The present subjunctive is used To talk about situations of uncertainty, or emotions such as wishes, desires and hopes. It differs from the indicative mood due to the uncertainty of the events which are being spoken about.
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