Ella Verbsbesarse to kiss (oneself, each other) Regular AR Verb
At a glance: Besarse (to kiss (oneself, each other)) is a reflexive regular -AR verb in Spanish. In the present tense: me beso, te besas, se besa, nos besamos, os besáis, se besan. Because it is fully regular, its endings apply directly to hundreds of other -AR verbs.

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The Indicative Present of besarse is used to talk about situations, events or thoughts that are happening now or in the near future. It is also used to talk about facts and truths. For example, “me beso”, meaning “I kiss”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Present is known as "El Presente".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me beso | I kiss |
| Tú | te besas | you kiss |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se besa | s/he kisses |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos besamos | we kiss |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os besáis | you (plural) kiss |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se besan | they kiss |
How it’s built: Regular: stem bes- plus the -ar endings. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Preterite of besarse is used to talk about actions completed in the past, at a specific point in time. For example, “me besé”, meaning “I kissed”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Preterite is known as "El Pretérito Indefinido".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me besé | I kissed |
| Tú | te besaste | you kissed |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se besó | s/he kissed |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos besamos | we kissed |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os besasteis | you (plural) kissed |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se besaron | they kissed |
How it’s built: Regular: stem bes- plus the -ar endings. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Imperfect of besarse is used to describe regular and repeated actions that happened in the past and descriptions of things you used to do. For example, “me besaba”, meaning “I used to kiss”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Imperfect is known as "El Pretérito Imperfecto".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me besaba | I used to kiss |
| Tú | te besabas | you used to kiss |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se besaba | s/he used to kiss |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos besábamos | we used to kiss |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os besabais | you (plural) used to kiss |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se besaban | they used to kiss |
How it’s built: Regular: stem bes- plus the -ar endings. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Present Continuous of besarse is used to talk about something that is happening continuously or right now. For example, “me estoy besando”, meaning “I am kissing”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Present Continuous is known as "El Presente Progresivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me estoy besando | I am kissing |
| Tú | te estás besando | you are kissing |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se está besando | s/he is kissing |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos estamos besando | we are kissing |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os estáis besando | you (plural) are kissing |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se están besando | they are kissing |
How it’s built: Estar in the present (estoy, estás, está, estamos, estáis, están) plus the gerund besando. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Informal Future of besarse is used to talk about something that will happen in the future, especially in the near future. For example, “me voy a besar”, meaning “I am going to kiss”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Informal Future is known as "El Futuro Próximo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me voy a besar | I am going to kiss |
| Tú | te vas a besar | you are going to kiss |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se va a besar | s/he is going to kiss |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos vamos a besar | we are going to kiss |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os vais a besar | you (plural) are going to kiss |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se van a besar | they are going to kiss |
How it’s built: Ir in the present (voy, vas, va, vamos, vais, van), then a, then the infinitive besar. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Future of besarse is used to talk about something that will happen in the future. For example, “me besaré”, meaning “I will kiss”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Future is known as "El Futuro Simple".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me besaré | I will kiss |
| Tú | te besarás | you will kiss |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se besará | s/he will kiss |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos besaremos | we will kiss |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os besaréis | you (plural) will kiss |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se besarán | they will kiss |
How it’s built: Regular: the infinitive besar plus the future endings. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Conditional of besarse is used to talk about something that may happen in the future, hypothesis and probabilities. For example, “me besaría”, meaning “I would kiss”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Conditional is known as "El Condicional Simple".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me besaría | I would kiss |
| Tú | te besarías | you would kiss |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se besaría | s/he would kiss |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos besaríamos | we would kiss |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os besaríais | you (plural) would kiss |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se besarían | they would kiss |
How it’s built: Regular: the infinitive besar plus the conditional endings. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Present Perfect of besarse is used to describe actions that started recently (in the past) and are still happening now or things that have been done recently. For example, “me he besado”, meaning “I have kissed”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Present Perfect is known as "El Pretérito Perfecto".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me he besado | I have kissed |
| Tú | te has besado | you have kissed |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se ha besado | s/he has kissed |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos hemos besado | we have kissed |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os habéis besado | you (plural) have kissed |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se han besado | they have kissed |
How it’s built: Haber in the present (he, has, ha, hemos, habéis, han) plus the past participle besado. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Past Perfect of besarse is used to talk about actions that happened before another action in the past. For example, “me había besado”, meaning “I had kissed”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Past Perfect is known as "El Pretérito Pluscuamperfecto".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me había besado | I had kissed |
| Tú | te habías besado | you had kissed |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se había besado | s/he had kissed |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos habíamos besado | we had kissed |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os habíais besado | you (plural) had kissed |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se habían besado | they had kissed |
How it’s built: Haber in the imperfect (había, habías, había, habíamos, habíais, habían) plus the past participle besado. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Future Perfect of besarse is used to talk about something that will have happened in the future after something else has already happened. For example, “me habré besado”, meaning “I will have kissed”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Future Perfect is known as "El Futuro Perfecto".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me habré besado | I will have kissed |
| Tú | te habrás besado | you will have kissed |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se habrá besado | s/he will have kissed |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos habremos besado | we will have kissed |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os habréis besado | you (plural) will have kissed |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se habrán besado | they will have kissed |
How it’s built: Haber in the future (habré, habrás, habrá, habremos, habréis, habrán) plus the past participle besado. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Conditional Perfect of besarse is used to talk about something that would have happened in the past but didn’t due to another action. For example, “me habría besado”, meaning “I would have kissed”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Conditional Perfect is known as "El Condicional Perfecto".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me habría besado | I would have kissed |
| Tú | te habrías besado | you would have kissed |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se habría besado | s/he would have kissed |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos habríamos besado | we would have kissed |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os habríais besado | you (plural) would have kissed |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se habrían besado | they would have kissed |
How it’s built: Haber in the conditional (habría, habrías, habría, habríamos, habríais, habrían) plus the past participle besado. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
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The Subjunctive Present is used to talk about situations of uncertainty, or emotions such as wishes, desires and hopes. It differs from the indicative mood due to the uncertainty of the events which are being spoken about. For example, “me bese”, meaning “I kiss”.
In Spanish, the Subjunctive Present is known as "El Presente de Subjuntivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me bese | I kiss |
| Tú | te beses | you kiss |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se bese | s/he kisses |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos besemos | we kiss |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os beséis | you (plural) kiss |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se besen | they kiss |
How it’s built: Regular: stem bes- plus the -ar subjunctive endings. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Subjunctive Imperfect is used to speak about unlikely or uncertain events in the past or to cast an opinion (emotional) about something that happened in the past. For example, “me besara”, meaning “I kissed”.
In Spanish, the Subjunctive Imperfect is known as "El Imperfecto Subjuntivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me besara | I kissed |
| Tú | te besaras | you kissed |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se besara | s/he kissed |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos besáramos | we kissed |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os besarais | you (plural) kissed |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se besaran | they kissed |
How it’s built: Regular: the ellas/ellos preterite, besaron, without -ron, plus the -ra endings; nosotros adds an accent (besáramos). The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Subjunctive Future is used to speak about hypothetical situations, and actions/events that may happen in the future. For example, “me besare”, meaning “I will kiss”.
In Spanish, the Subjunctive Future is known as "El Futuro de Subjuntivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me besare | I will kiss |
| Tú | te besares | you will kiss |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se besare | s/he will kiss |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos besáremos | we will kiss |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os besareis | you (plural) will kiss |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se besaren | they will kiss |
How it’s built: Regular: the ellas/ellos preterite, besaron, without -ron, plus the -re endings; nosotros adds an accent (besáremos). The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Subjunctive Present Perfect is used to describe past actions or events that are still connected to the present day and to speak about an action that will have happened by a certain time in the future. For example, “me haya besado”, meaning “I have kissed”.
In Spanish, the Subjunctive Present Perfect is known as "El Pretérito Perfecto de Subjuntivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me haya besado | I have kissed |
| Tú | te hayas besado | you have kissed |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se haya besado | s/he has kissed |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos hayamos besado | we have kissed |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os hayáis besado | you (plural) have kissed |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se hayan besado | they have kissed |
How it’s built: Haber in the subjunctive present (haya, hayas, haya, hayamos, hayáis, hayan) plus the past participle besado. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Subjunctive Past Perfect is used to speak about hypothetical situations, and actions/events that occurred before other actions/events in the past. For example, “me hubiera besado”, meaning “I had kissed”.
In Spanish, the Subjunctive Past Perfect is known as "El Pretérito Pluscuamperfecto de Subjuntivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me hubiera besado | I had kissed |
| Tú | te hubieras besado | you had kissed |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se hubiera besado | s/he had kissed |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos hubiéramos besado | we had kissed |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os hubierais besado | you (plural) had kissed |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se hubieran besado | they had kissed |
How it’s built: Haber in the subjunctive imperfect (hubiera, hubieras, hubiera, hubiéramos, hubierais, hubieran) plus the past participle besado. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Subjunctive Future Perfect is used to speak about something that will have happened if a hypothetical situations occurs in the future. For example, “me hubiere besado”, meaning “I will have kissed”.
In Spanish, the Subjunctive Future Perfect is known as "El Futuro Perfecto de Subjuntivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me hubiere besado | I will have kissed |
| Tú | te hubieres besado | you will have kissed |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se hubiere besado | s/he will have kissed |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos hubiéremos besado | we will have kissed |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os hubiereis besado | you (plural) will have kissed |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se hubieren besado | they will have kissed |
How it’s built: Haber in the subjunctive future (hubiere, hubieres, hubiere, hubiéremos, hubiereis, hubieren) plus the past participle besado. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Imperative Affirmative is used to give orders and commands, to tell someone to do something. For example, “bésese”, meaning “(to you formal) kiss!”.
In Spanish, the Imperative Affirmative is known as "El Imperativo Afirmativo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | - | - |
| Tú | bésate | (to you) kiss! |
| Ella / Él / Usted | bésese | (to you formal) kiss! |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | besémonos | let's kiss! |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | besaos | (to you plural) kiss! |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | bésense | (to you plural formal) kiss! |
How it’s built: Tú takes the ella/él present and attaches te (bésate); usted and ustedes take the subjunctive present and attach se (bésese, bésense); nosotros takes the subjunctive present, drops the s and attaches nos (besémonos); vosotros drops the final r of the infinitive and attaches os (besaos).
The Imperative Negative is used to give orders and commands, telling someone not to do something. For example, “no se bese”, meaning “(to you formal) don't kiss!”.
In Spanish, the Imperative Negative is known as "El Imperativo Negativo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | - | - |
| Tú | no te beses | (to you) don't kiss! |
| Ella / Él / Usted | no se bese | (to you formal) don't kiss! |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | no nos besemos | let's not kiss! |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | no os beséis | (to you plural) don't kiss! |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | no se besen | (to you plural formal) don't kiss! |
How it’s built: No plus the subjunctive present: no te beses, no se bese, no nos besemos, no os beséis, no se besen.
Besarse is a fully regular -AR reflexive verb. It follows the standard -AR conjugation pattern in every tense and mood without any stem changes, spelling changes, or irregular forms. This makes it a model verb for learning the -AR conjugation system.
In the present tense (presente), besarse is conjugated as: yo me beso, tú te besas, él/ella/usted se besa, nosotros nos besamos, vosotros os besáis, ellos/ellas/ustedes se besan. The present tense is used To talk about situations, events or thoughts that are happening now or in the near future. It is also used to talk about facts and truths.
In the preterite (pretérito indefinido), besarse is conjugated as: yo me besé, tú te besaste, él/ella/usted se besó, nosotros nos besamos, vosotros os besasteis, ellos/ellas/ustedes se besaron. The preterite is used To talk about actions completed in the past, at a specific point in time.
In the imperfect (pretérito imperfecto), besarse is conjugated as: yo me besaba, tú te besabas, él/ella/usted se besaba, nosotros nos besábamos, vosotros os besabais, ellos/ellas/ustedes se besaban. The imperfect is used To describe regular and repeated actions that happened in the past and descriptions of things you used to do.
In the future tense (futuro simple), besarse is conjugated as: yo me besaré, tú te besarás, él/ella/usted se besará, nosotros nos besaremos, vosotros os besaréis, ellos/ellas/ustedes se besarán. The future tense is used To talk about something that will happen in the future.
In the present subjunctive (subjuntivo presente), besarse is conjugated as: yo me bese, tú te beses, él/ella/usted se bese, nosotros nos besemos, vosotros os beséis, ellos/ellas/ustedes se besen. The present subjunctive is used To talk about situations of uncertainty, or emotions such as wishes, desires and hopes. It differs from the indicative mood due to the uncertainty of the events which are being spoken about.
Besar means ‘to kiss’ and besarse means ‘to kiss (oneself, each other)’. Besarse is the reflexive form of besar, so it always takes a reflexive pronoun – me, te, se, nos, os or se – that matches the subject. The verb itself is conjugated the same way: in the present tense, yo beso becomes me beso. In the affirmative tú imperative the pronoun attaches to the end of the verb, so besa becomes bésate.
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