Ella Verbsquererse to love (oneself) Irregular Verb Top 100
At a glance: Quererse (to love (oneself)) is one of the most common reflexive irregular verbs in Spanish. In the present tense: me quiero, te quieres, se quiere, nos queremos, os queréis, se quieren. It is conjugated like querer. Yo, tú, ella/él and ellas/ellos change e to ie (quiero, quieres, quiere, quieren); nosotros and vosotros are regular. It is also irregular in the preterite (me quise), future (me querré), conditional (me querría) and subjunctive.

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The Indicative Present of quererse is used to talk about situations, events or thoughts that are happening now or in the near future. It is also used to talk about facts and truths. For example, “me quiero”, meaning “I love”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Present is known as "El Presente".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me quiero | I love |
| Tú | te quieres | you love |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se quiere | s/he loves |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos queremos | we love |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os queréis | you (plural) love |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se quieren | they love |
How it’s built: Yo, tú, ella/él and ellas/ellos change e to ie (quiero, quieres, quiere, quieren); nosotros and vosotros are regular. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
Letters in red show where a form differs from the regular pattern.
The Indicative Preterite of quererse is used to talk about actions completed in the past, at a specific point in time. For example, “me quise”, meaning “I loved”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Preterite is known as "El Pretérito Indefinido".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me quise | I loved |
| Tú | te quisiste | you loved |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se quiso | s/he loved |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos quisimos | we loved |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os quisisteis | you (plural) loved |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se quisieron | they loved |
How it’s built: Irregular stem quis- plus the endings -e, -iste, -o, -imos, -isteis, -ieron. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
Letters in red show where a form differs from the regular pattern.
The Indicative Imperfect of quererse is used to describe regular and repeated actions that happened in the past and descriptions of things you used to do. For example, “me quería”, meaning “I used to love”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Imperfect is known as "El Pretérito Imperfecto".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me quería | I used to love |
| Tú | te querías | you used to love |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se quería | s/he used to love |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos queríamos | we used to love |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os queríais | you (plural) used to love |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se querían | they used to love |
How it’s built: Regular: stem quer- plus the -er endings. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Present Continuous of quererse is used to talk about something that is happening continuously or right now. For example, “me estoy queriendo”, meaning “I am loving”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Present Continuous is known as "El Presente Progresivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me estoy queriendo | I am loving |
| Tú | te estás queriendo | you are loving |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se está queriendo | s/he is loving |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos estamos queriendo | we are loving |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os estáis queriendo | you (plural) are loving |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se están queriendo | they are loving |
How it’s built: Estar in the present (estoy, estás, está, estamos, estáis, están) plus the gerund queriendo. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Informal Future of quererse is used to talk about something that will happen in the future, especially in the near future. For example, “me voy a querer”, meaning “I am going to love”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Informal Future is known as "El Futuro Próximo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me voy a querer | I am going to love |
| Tú | te vas a querer | you are going to love |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se va a querer | s/he is going to love |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos vamos a querer | we are going to love |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os vais a querer | you (plural) are going to love |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se van a querer | they are going to love |
How it’s built: Ir in the present (voy, vas, va, vamos, vais, van), then a, then the infinitive querer. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Future of quererse is used to talk about something that will happen in the future. For example, “me querré”, meaning “I will love”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Future is known as "El Futuro Simple".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me querré | I will love |
| Tú | te querrás | you will love |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se querrá | s/he will love |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos querremos | we will love |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os querréis | you (plural) will love |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se querrán | they will love |
How it’s built: Irregular stem querr- instead of querer, plus the future endings. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
Letters in red show where a form differs from the regular pattern.
The Indicative Conditional of quererse is used to talk about something that may happen in the future, hypothesis and probabilities. For example, “me querría”, meaning “I would love”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Conditional is known as "El Condicional Simple".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me querría | I would love |
| Tú | te querrías | you would love |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se querría | s/he would love |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos querríamos | we would love |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os querríais | you (plural) would love |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se querrían | they would love |
How it’s built: Irregular stem querr- instead of querer, plus the conditional endings. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
Letters in red show where a form differs from the regular pattern.
The Indicative Present Perfect of quererse is used to describe actions that started recently (in the past) and are still happening now or things that have been done recently. For example, “me he querido”, meaning “I have loved”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Present Perfect is known as "El Pretérito Perfecto".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me he querido | I have loved |
| Tú | te has querido | you have loved |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se ha querido | s/he has loved |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos hemos querido | we have loved |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os habéis querido | you (plural) have loved |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se han querido | they have loved |
How it’s built: Haber in the present (he, has, ha, hemos, habéis, han) plus the past participle querido. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Past Perfect of quererse is used to talk about actions that happened before another action in the past. For example, “me había querido”, meaning “I had loved”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Past Perfect is known as "El Pretérito Pluscuamperfecto".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me había querido | I had loved |
| Tú | te habías querido | you had loved |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se había querido | s/he had loved |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos habíamos querido | we had loved |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os habíais querido | you (plural) had loved |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se habían querido | they had loved |
How it’s built: Haber in the imperfect (había, habías, había, habíamos, habíais, habían) plus the past participle querido. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Future Perfect of quererse is used to talk about something that will have happened in the future after something else has already happened. For example, “me habré querido”, meaning “I will have loved”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Future Perfect is known as "El Futuro Perfecto".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me habré querido | I will have loved |
| Tú | te habrás querido | you will have loved |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se habrá querido | s/he will have loved |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos habremos querido | we will have loved |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os habréis querido | you (plural) will have loved |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se habrán querido | they will have loved |
How it’s built: Haber in the future (habré, habrás, habrá, habremos, habréis, habrán) plus the past participle querido. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Conditional Perfect of quererse is used to talk about something that would have happened in the past but didn’t due to another action. For example, “me habría querido”, meaning “I would have loved”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Conditional Perfect is known as "El Condicional Perfecto".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me habría querido | I would have loved |
| Tú | te habrías querido | you would have loved |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se habría querido | s/he would have loved |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos habríamos querido | we would have loved |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os habríais querido | you (plural) would have loved |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se habrían querido | they would have loved |
How it’s built: Haber in the conditional (habría, habrías, habría, habríamos, habríais, habrían) plus the past participle querido. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
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The Subjunctive Present is used to talk about situations of uncertainty, or emotions such as wishes, desires and hopes. It differs from the indicative mood due to the uncertainty of the events which are being spoken about. For example, “me quiera”, meaning “I love”.
In Spanish, the Subjunctive Present is known as "El Presente de Subjuntivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me quiera | I love |
| Tú | te quieras | you love |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se quiera | s/he loves |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos queramos | we love |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os queráis | you (plural) love |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se quieran | they love |
How it’s built: Yo, tú, ella/él and ellas/ellos follow the yo present, quiero (quiera, quieras, quiera, quieran); nosotros and vosotros are regular. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
Letters in red show where a form differs from the regular pattern.
The Subjunctive Imperfect is used to speak about unlikely or uncertain events in the past or to cast an opinion (emotional) about something that happened in the past. For example, “me quisiera”, meaning “I loved”.
In Spanish, the Subjunctive Imperfect is known as "El Imperfecto Subjuntivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me quisiera | I loved |
| Tú | te quisieras | you loved |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se quisiera | s/he loved |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos quisiéramos | we loved |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os quisierais | you (plural) loved |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se quisieran | they loved |
How it’s built: Built on the irregular ellas/ellos preterite, quisieron: drop -ron and add the -ra endings; nosotros adds an accent (quisiéramos). The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
Letters in red show where a form differs from the regular pattern.
The Subjunctive Future is used to speak about hypothetical situations, and actions/events that may happen in the future. For example, “me quisiere”, meaning “I will love”.
In Spanish, the Subjunctive Future is known as "El Futuro de Subjuntivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me quisiere | I will love |
| Tú | te quisieres | you will love |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se quisiere | s/he will love |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos quisiéremos | we will love |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os quisiereis | you (plural) will love |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se quisieren | they will love |
How it’s built: Built on the irregular ellas/ellos preterite, quisieron: drop -ron and add the -re endings; nosotros adds an accent (quisiéremos). The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
Letters in red show where a form differs from the regular pattern.
The Subjunctive Present Perfect is used to describe past actions or events that are still connected to the present day and to speak about an action that will have happened by a certain time in the future. For example, “me haya querido”, meaning “I have loved”.
In Spanish, the Subjunctive Present Perfect is known as "El Pretérito Perfecto de Subjuntivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me haya querido | I have loved |
| Tú | te hayas querido | you have loved |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se haya querido | s/he has loved |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos hayamos querido | we have loved |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os hayáis querido | you (plural) have loved |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se hayan querido | they have loved |
How it’s built: Haber in the subjunctive present (haya, hayas, haya, hayamos, hayáis, hayan) plus the past participle querido. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Subjunctive Past Perfect is used to speak about hypothetical situations, and actions/events that occurred before other actions/events in the past. For example, “me hubiera querido”, meaning “I had loved”.
In Spanish, the Subjunctive Past Perfect is known as "El Pretérito Pluscuamperfecto de Subjuntivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me hubiera querido | I had loved |
| Tú | te hubieras querido | you had loved |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se hubiera querido | s/he had loved |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos hubiéramos querido | we had loved |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os hubierais querido | you (plural) had loved |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se hubieran querido | they had loved |
How it’s built: Haber in the subjunctive imperfect (hubiera, hubieras, hubiera, hubiéramos, hubierais, hubieran) plus the past participle querido. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Subjunctive Future Perfect is used to speak about something that will have happened if a hypothetical situations occurs in the future. For example, “me hubiere querido”, meaning “I will have loved”.
In Spanish, the Subjunctive Future Perfect is known as "El Futuro Perfecto de Subjuntivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me hubiere querido | I will have loved |
| Tú | te hubieres querido | you will have loved |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se hubiere querido | s/he will have loved |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos hubiéremos querido | we will have loved |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os hubiereis querido | you (plural) will have loved |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se hubieren querido | they will have loved |
How it’s built: Haber in the subjunctive future (hubiere, hubieres, hubiere, hubiéremos, hubiereis, hubieren) plus the past participle querido. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Imperative Affirmative is used to give orders and commands, to tell someone to do something. For example, “quiérase”, meaning “(to you formal) love!”.
In Spanish, the Imperative Affirmative is known as "El Imperativo Afirmativo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | - | - |
| Tú | quiérete | (to you) love! |
| Ella / Él / Usted | quiérase | (to you formal) love! |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | querámonos | let's love! |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | quereos | (to you plural) love! |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | quiéranse | (to you plural formal) love! |
How it’s built: Tú takes the ella/él present and attaches te (quiérete); usted and ustedes take the subjunctive present and attach se (quiérase, quiéranse); nosotros takes the subjunctive present, drops the s and attaches nos (querámonos); vosotros drops the final r of the infinitive and attaches os (quereos).
Letters in red show where a form differs from the regular pattern.
The Imperative Negative is used to give orders and commands, telling someone not to do something. For example, “no se quiera”, meaning “(to you formal) don't love!”.
In Spanish, the Imperative Negative is known as "El Imperativo Negativo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | - | - |
| Tú | no te quieras | (to you) don't love! |
| Ella / Él / Usted | no se quiera | (to you formal) don't love! |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | no nos queramos | let's not love! |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | no os queráis | (to you plural) don't love! |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | no se quieran | (to you plural formal) don't love! |
How it’s built: No plus the subjunctive present: no te quieras, no se quiera, no nos queramos, no os queráis, no se quieran.
Letters in red show where a form differs from the regular pattern.
Quererse is an irregular Spanish verb. It is conjugated like querer. In the present tense: yo, tú, ella/él and ellas/ellos change e to ie (quiero, quieres, quiere, quieren); nosotros and vosotros are regular. It is also irregular in the preterite (me quise), future (me querré), conditional (me querría) and subjunctive.
In the present tense (presente), quererse is conjugated as: yo me quiero, tú te quieres, él/ella/usted se quiere, nosotros nos queremos, vosotros os queréis, ellos/ellas/ustedes se quieren. The present tense is used To talk about situations, events or thoughts that are happening now or in the near future. It is also used to talk about facts and truths.
In the preterite (pretérito indefinido), quererse is conjugated as: yo me quise, tú te quisiste, él/ella/usted se quiso, nosotros nos quisimos, vosotros os quisisteis, ellos/ellas/ustedes se quisieron. The preterite is used To talk about actions completed in the past, at a specific point in time.
In the imperfect (pretérito imperfecto), quererse is conjugated as: yo me quería, tú te querías, él/ella/usted se quería, nosotros nos queríamos, vosotros os queríais, ellos/ellas/ustedes se querían. The imperfect is used To describe regular and repeated actions that happened in the past and descriptions of things you used to do.
In the future tense (futuro simple), quererse is conjugated as: yo me querré, tú te querrás, él/ella/usted se querrá, nosotros nos querremos, vosotros os querréis, ellos/ellas/ustedes se querrán. The future tense is used To talk about something that will happen in the future.
In the present subjunctive (subjuntivo presente), quererse is conjugated as: yo me quiera, tú te quieras, él/ella/usted se quiera, nosotros nos queramos, vosotros os queráis, ellos/ellas/ustedes se quieran. The present subjunctive is used To talk about situations of uncertainty, or emotions such as wishes, desires and hopes. It differs from the indicative mood due to the uncertainty of the events which are being spoken about.
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