Ella Verbsextrañarse to be surprised Regular AR Verb
At a glance: Extrañarse (to be surprised) is a reflexive regular -AR verb in Spanish. In the present tense: me extraño, te extrañas, se extraña, nos extrañamos, os extrañáis, se extrañan. Because it is fully regular, its endings apply directly to hundreds of other -AR verbs.

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The Indicative Present of extrañarse is used to talk about situations, events or thoughts that are happening now or in the near future. It is also used to talk about facts and truths. For example, “me extraño”, meaning “I am surprised”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Present is known as "El Presente".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me extraño | I am surprised |
| Tú | te extrañas | you are surprised |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se extraña | s/he is surprised |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos extrañamos | we are surprised |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os extrañáis | you (plural) are surprised |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se extrañan | they are surprised |
How it’s built: Regular: stem extrañ- plus the -ar endings. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Preterite of extrañarse is used to talk about actions completed in the past, at a specific point in time. For example, “me extrañé”, meaning “I was surprised”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Preterite is known as "El Pretérito Indefinido".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me extrañé | I was surprised |
| Tú | te extrañaste | you were surprised |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se extrañó | s/he was surprised |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos extrañamos | we were surprised |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os extrañasteis | you (plural) were surprised |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se extrañaron | they were surprised |
How it’s built: Regular: stem extrañ- plus the -ar endings. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Imperfect of extrañarse is used to describe regular and repeated actions that happened in the past and descriptions of things you used to do. For example, “me extrañaba”, meaning “I used to be surprised”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Imperfect is known as "El Pretérito Imperfecto".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me extrañaba | I used to be surprised |
| Tú | te extrañabas | you used to be surprised |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se extrañaba | s/he used to be surprised |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos extrañábamos | we used to be surprised |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os extrañabais | you (plural) used to be surprised |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se extrañaban | they used to be surprised |
How it’s built: Regular: stem extrañ- plus the -ar endings. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Present Continuous of extrañarse is used to talk about something that is happening continuously or right now. For example, “me estoy extrañando”, meaning “I am being surprised”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Present Continuous is known as "El Presente Progresivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me estoy extrañando | I am being surprised |
| Tú | te estás extrañando | you are being surprised |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se está extrañando | s/he is being surprised |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos estamos extrañando | we are being surprised |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os estáis extrañando | you (plural) are being surprised |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se están extrañando | they are being surprised |
How it’s built: Estar in the present (estoy, estás, está, estamos, estáis, están) plus the gerund extrañando. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Informal Future of extrañarse is used to talk about something that will happen in the future, especially in the near future. For example, “me voy a extrañar”, meaning “I am going to be surprised”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Informal Future is known as "El Futuro Próximo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me voy a extrañar | I am going to be surprised |
| Tú | te vas a extrañar | you are going to be surprised |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se va a extrañar | s/he is going to be surprised |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos vamos a extrañar | we are going to be surprised |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os vais a extrañar | you (plural) are going to be surprised |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se van a extrañar | they are going to be surprised |
How it’s built: Ir in the present (voy, vas, va, vamos, vais, van), then a, then the infinitive extrañar. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Future of extrañarse is used to talk about something that will happen in the future. For example, “me extrañaré”, meaning “I will be surprised”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Future is known as "El Futuro Simple".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me extrañaré | I will be surprised |
| Tú | te extrañarás | you will be surprised |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se extrañará | s/he will be surprised |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos extrañaremos | we will be surprised |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os extrañaréis | you (plural) will be surprised |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se extrañarán | they will be surprised |
How it’s built: Regular: the infinitive extrañar plus the future endings. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Conditional of extrañarse is used to talk about something that may happen in the future, hypothesis and probabilities. For example, “me extrañaría”, meaning “I would be surprised”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Conditional is known as "El Condicional Simple".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me extrañaría | I would be surprised |
| Tú | te extrañarías | you would be surprised |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se extrañaría | s/he would be surprised |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos extrañaríamos | we would be surprised |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os extrañaríais | you (plural) would be surprised |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se extrañarían | they would be surprised |
How it’s built: Regular: the infinitive extrañar plus the conditional endings. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Present Perfect of extrañarse is used to describe actions that started recently (in the past) and are still happening now or things that have been done recently. For example, “me he extrañado”, meaning “I have been surprised”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Present Perfect is known as "El Pretérito Perfecto".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me he extrañado | I have been surprised |
| Tú | te has extrañado | you have been surprised |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se ha extrañado | s/he has been surprised |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos hemos extrañado | we have been surprised |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os habéis extrañado | you (plural) have been surprised |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se han extrañado | they have been surprised |
How it’s built: Haber in the present (he, has, ha, hemos, habéis, han) plus the past participle extrañado. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Past Perfect of extrañarse is used to talk about actions that happened before another action in the past. For example, “me había extrañado”, meaning “I had been surprised”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Past Perfect is known as "El Pretérito Pluscuamperfecto".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me había extrañado | I had been surprised |
| Tú | te habías extrañado | you had been surprised |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se había extrañado | s/he had been surprised |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos habíamos extrañado | we had been surprised |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os habíais extrañado | you (plural) had been surprised |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se habían extrañado | they had been surprised |
How it’s built: Haber in the imperfect (había, habías, había, habíamos, habíais, habían) plus the past participle extrañado. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Future Perfect of extrañarse is used to talk about something that will have happened in the future after something else has already happened. For example, “me habré extrañado”, meaning “I will have been surprised”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Future Perfect is known as "El Futuro Perfecto".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me habré extrañado | I will have been surprised |
| Tú | te habrás extrañado | you will have been surprised |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se habrá extrañado | s/he will have been surprised |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos habremos extrañado | we will have been surprised |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os habréis extrañado | you (plural) will have been surprised |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se habrán extrañado | they will have been surprised |
How it’s built: Haber in the future (habré, habrás, habrá, habremos, habréis, habrán) plus the past participle extrañado. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Conditional Perfect of extrañarse is used to talk about something that would have happened in the past but didn’t due to another action. For example, “me habría extrañado”, meaning “I would have been surprised”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Conditional Perfect is known as "El Condicional Perfecto".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me habría extrañado | I would have been surprised |
| Tú | te habrías extrañado | you would have been surprised |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se habría extrañado | s/he would have been surprised |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos habríamos extrañado | we would have been surprised |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os habríais extrañado | you (plural) would have been surprised |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se habrían extrañado | they would have been surprised |
How it’s built: Haber in the conditional (habría, habrías, habría, habríamos, habríais, habrían) plus the past participle extrañado. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
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The Subjunctive Present is used to talk about situations of uncertainty, or emotions such as wishes, desires and hopes. It differs from the indicative mood due to the uncertainty of the events which are being spoken about. For example, “me extrañe”, meaning “I am surprised”.
In Spanish, the Subjunctive Present is known as "El Presente de Subjuntivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me extrañe | I am surprised |
| Tú | te extrañes | you are surprised |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se extrañe | s/he is surprised |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos extrañemos | we are surprised |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os extrañéis | you (plural) are surprised |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se extrañen | they are surprised |
How it’s built: Regular: stem extrañ- plus the -ar subjunctive endings. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Subjunctive Imperfect is used to speak about unlikely or uncertain events in the past or to cast an opinion (emotional) about something that happened in the past. For example, “me extrañara”, meaning “I were surprised”.
In Spanish, the Subjunctive Imperfect is known as "El Imperfecto Subjuntivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me extrañara | I were surprised |
| Tú | te extrañaras | you were surprised |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se extrañara | s/he were surprised |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos extrañáramos | we were surprised |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os extrañarais | you (plural) were surprised |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se extrañaran | they were surprised |
How it’s built: Regular: the ellas/ellos preterite, extrañaron, without -ron, plus the -ra endings; nosotros adds an accent (extrañáramos). The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Subjunctive Future is used to speak about hypothetical situations, and actions/events that may happen in the future. For example, “me extrañare”, meaning “I will be surprised”.
In Spanish, the Subjunctive Future is known as "El Futuro de Subjuntivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me extrañare | I will be surprised |
| Tú | te extrañares | you will be surprised |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se extrañare | s/he will be surprised |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos extrañáremos | we will be surprised |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os extrañareis | you (plural) will be surprised |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se extrañaren | they will be surprised |
How it’s built: Regular: the ellas/ellos preterite, extrañaron, without -ron, plus the -re endings; nosotros adds an accent (extrañáremos). The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Subjunctive Present Perfect is used to describe past actions or events that are still connected to the present day and to speak about an action that will have happened by a certain time in the future. For example, “me haya extrañado”, meaning “I have been surprised”.
In Spanish, the Subjunctive Present Perfect is known as "El Pretérito Perfecto de Subjuntivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me haya extrañado | I have been surprised |
| Tú | te hayas extrañado | you have been surprised |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se haya extrañado | s/he has been surprised |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos hayamos extrañado | we have been surprised |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os hayáis extrañado | you (plural) have been surprised |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se hayan extrañado | they have been surprised |
How it’s built: Haber in the subjunctive present (haya, hayas, haya, hayamos, hayáis, hayan) plus the past participle extrañado. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Subjunctive Past Perfect is used to speak about hypothetical situations, and actions/events that occurred before other actions/events in the past. For example, “me hubiera extrañado”, meaning “I had been surprised”.
In Spanish, the Subjunctive Past Perfect is known as "El Pretérito Pluscuamperfecto de Subjuntivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me hubiera extrañado | I had been surprised |
| Tú | te hubieras extrañado | you had been surprised |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se hubiera extrañado | s/he had been surprised |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos hubiéramos extrañado | we had been surprised |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os hubierais extrañado | you (plural) had been surprised |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se hubieran extrañado | they had been surprised |
How it’s built: Haber in the subjunctive imperfect (hubiera, hubieras, hubiera, hubiéramos, hubierais, hubieran) plus the past participle extrañado. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Subjunctive Future Perfect is used to speak about something that will have happened if a hypothetical situations occurs in the future. For example, “me hubiere extrañado”, meaning “I will have been surprised”.
In Spanish, the Subjunctive Future Perfect is known as "El Futuro Perfecto de Subjuntivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me hubiere extrañado | I will have been surprised |
| Tú | te hubieres extrañado | you will have been surprised |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se hubiere extrañado | s/he will have been surprised |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos hubiéremos extrañado | we will have been surprised |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os hubiereis extrañado | you (plural) will have been surprised |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se hubieren extrañado | they will have been surprised |
How it’s built: Haber in the subjunctive future (hubiere, hubieres, hubiere, hubiéremos, hubiereis, hubieren) plus the past participle extrañado. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Imperative Affirmative is used to give orders and commands, to tell someone to do something. For example, “extráñese”, meaning “(to you formal) be surprised!”.
In Spanish, the Imperative Affirmative is known as "El Imperativo Afirmativo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | - | - |
| Tú | extráñate | (to you) be surprised! |
| Ella / Él / Usted | extráñese | (to you formal) be surprised! |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | extrañémonos | let's be surprised! |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | extrañaos | (to you plural) be surprised! |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | extráñense | (to you plural formal) be surprised! |
How it’s built: Tú takes the ella/él present and attaches te (extráñate); usted and ustedes take the subjunctive present and attach se (extráñese, extráñense); nosotros takes the subjunctive present, drops the s and attaches nos (extrañémonos); vosotros drops the final r of the infinitive and attaches os (extrañaos).
The Imperative Negative is used to give orders and commands, telling someone not to do something. For example, “no se extrañe”, meaning “(to you formal) don't be surprised!”.
In Spanish, the Imperative Negative is known as "El Imperativo Negativo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | - | - |
| Tú | no te extrañes | (to you) don't be surprised! |
| Ella / Él / Usted | no se extrañe | (to you formal) don't be surprised! |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | no nos extrañemos | let's not be surprised! |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | no os extrañéis | (to you plural) don't be surprised! |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | no se extrañen | (to you plural formal) don't be surprised! |
How it’s built: No plus the subjunctive present: no te extrañes, no se extrañe, no nos extrañemos, no os extrañéis, no se extrañen.
Extrañarse is a fully regular -AR reflexive verb. It follows the standard -AR conjugation pattern in every tense and mood without any stem changes, spelling changes, or irregular forms. This makes it a model verb for learning the -AR conjugation system.
In the present tense (presente), extrañarse is conjugated as: yo me extraño, tú te extrañas, él/ella/usted se extraña, nosotros nos extrañamos, vosotros os extrañáis, ellos/ellas/ustedes se extrañan. The present tense is used To talk about situations, events or thoughts that are happening now or in the near future. It is also used to talk about facts and truths.
In the preterite (pretérito indefinido), extrañarse is conjugated as: yo me extrañé, tú te extrañaste, él/ella/usted se extrañó, nosotros nos extrañamos, vosotros os extrañasteis, ellos/ellas/ustedes se extrañaron. The preterite is used To talk about actions completed in the past, at a specific point in time.
In the imperfect (pretérito imperfecto), extrañarse is conjugated as: yo me extrañaba, tú te extrañabas, él/ella/usted se extrañaba, nosotros nos extrañábamos, vosotros os extrañabais, ellos/ellas/ustedes se extrañaban. The imperfect is used To describe regular and repeated actions that happened in the past and descriptions of things you used to do.
In the future tense (futuro simple), extrañarse is conjugated as: yo me extrañaré, tú te extrañarás, él/ella/usted se extrañará, nosotros nos extrañaremos, vosotros os extrañaréis, ellos/ellas/ustedes se extrañarán. The future tense is used To talk about something that will happen in the future.
In the present subjunctive (subjuntivo presente), extrañarse is conjugated as: yo me extrañe, tú te extrañes, él/ella/usted se extrañe, nosotros nos extrañemos, vosotros os extrañéis, ellos/ellas/ustedes se extrañen. The present subjunctive is used To talk about situations of uncertainty, or emotions such as wishes, desires and hopes. It differs from the indicative mood due to the uncertainty of the events which are being spoken about.
Extrañar means ‘to miss, to surprise’ and extrañarse means ‘to be surprised’. Extrañarse is the reflexive form of extrañar, so it always takes a reflexive pronoun – me, te, se, nos, os or se – that matches the subject. The verb itself is conjugated the same way: in the present tense, yo extraño becomes me extraño. In the affirmative tú imperative the pronoun attaches to the end of the verb, so extraña becomes extráñate.
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