Ella Verbsdarse to give (oneself) Irregular Verb Top 100
At a glance: Darse (to give (oneself)) is one of the most common reflexive irregular verbs in Spanish. In the present tense: me doy, te das, se da, nos damos, os dais, se dan. It is conjugated like dar. Yo and vosotros are irregular (doy, dais); the other forms are regular. It is also irregular in the preterite (me di) and subjunctive.

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The Indicative Present of darse is used to talk about situations, events or thoughts that are happening now or in the near future. It is also used to talk about facts and truths. For example, “me doy”, meaning “I give”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Present is known as "El Presente".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me doy | I give |
| Tú | te das | you give |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se da | s/he gives |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos damos | we give |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os dais | you (plural) give |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se dan | they give |
How it’s built: Yo and vosotros are irregular (doy, dais); the other forms are regular. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
Letters in red show where a form differs from the regular pattern.
The Indicative Preterite of darse is used to talk about actions completed in the past, at a specific point in time. For example, “me di”, meaning “I gave”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Preterite is known as "El Pretérito Indefinido".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me di | I gave |
| Tú | te diste | you gave |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se dio | s/he gave |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos dimos | we gave |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os disteis | you (plural) gave |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se dieron | they gave |
How it’s built: Irregular in every form: di, diste, dio, dimos, disteis, dieron. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
Letters in red show where a form differs from the regular pattern.
The Indicative Imperfect of darse is used to describe regular and repeated actions that happened in the past and descriptions of things you used to do. For example, “me daba”, meaning “I used to give”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Imperfect is known as "El Pretérito Imperfecto".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me daba | I used to give |
| Tú | te dabas | you used to give |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se daba | s/he used to give |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos dábamos | we used to give |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os dabais | you (plural) used to give |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se daban | they used to give |
How it’s built: Regular: stem d- plus the -ar endings. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Present Continuous of darse is used to talk about something that is happening continuously or right now. For example, “me estoy dando”, meaning “I am giving”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Present Continuous is known as "El Presente Progresivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me estoy dando | I am giving |
| Tú | te estás dando | you are giving |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se está dando | s/he is giving |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos estamos dando | we are giving |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os estáis dando | you (plural) are giving |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se están dando | they are giving |
How it’s built: Estar in the present (estoy, estás, está, estamos, estáis, están) plus the gerund dando. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Informal Future of darse is used to talk about something that will happen in the future, especially in the near future. For example, “me voy a dar”, meaning “I am going to give”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Informal Future is known as "El Futuro Próximo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me voy a dar | I am going to give |
| Tú | te vas a dar | you are going to give |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se va a dar | s/he is going to give |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos vamos a dar | we are going to give |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os vais a dar | you (plural) are going to give |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se van a dar | they are going to give |
How it’s built: Ir in the present (voy, vas, va, vamos, vais, van), then a, then the infinitive dar. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Future of darse is used to talk about something that will happen in the future. For example, “me daré”, meaning “I will give”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Future is known as "El Futuro Simple".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me daré | I will give |
| Tú | te darás | you will give |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se dará | s/he will give |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos daremos | we will give |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os daréis | you (plural) will give |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se darán | they will give |
How it’s built: Regular: the infinitive dar plus the future endings. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Conditional of darse is used to talk about something that may happen in the future, hypothesis and probabilities. For example, “me daría”, meaning “I would give”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Conditional is known as "El Condicional Simple".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me daría | I would give |
| Tú | te darías | you would give |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se daría | s/he would give |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos daríamos | we would give |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os daríais | you (plural) would give |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se darían | they would give |
How it’s built: Regular: the infinitive dar plus the conditional endings. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Present Perfect of darse is used to describe actions that started recently (in the past) and are still happening now or things that have been done recently. For example, “me he dado”, meaning “I have given”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Present Perfect is known as "El Pretérito Perfecto".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me he dado | I have given |
| Tú | te has dado | you have given |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se ha dado | s/he has given |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos hemos dado | we have given |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os habéis dado | you (plural) have given |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se han dado | they have given |
How it’s built: Haber in the present (he, has, ha, hemos, habéis, han) plus the past participle dado. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Past Perfect of darse is used to talk about actions that happened before another action in the past. For example, “me había dado”, meaning “I had given”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Past Perfect is known as "El Pretérito Pluscuamperfecto".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me había dado | I had given |
| Tú | te habías dado | you had given |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se había dado | s/he had given |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos habíamos dado | we had given |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os habíais dado | you (plural) had given |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se habían dado | they had given |
How it’s built: Haber in the imperfect (había, habías, había, habíamos, habíais, habían) plus the past participle dado. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Future Perfect of darse is used to talk about something that will have happened in the future after something else has already happened. For example, “me habré dado”, meaning “I will have given”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Future Perfect is known as "El Futuro Perfecto".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me habré dado | I will have given |
| Tú | te habrás dado | you will have given |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se habrá dado | s/he will have given |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos habremos dado | we will have given |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os habréis dado | you (plural) will have given |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se habrán dado | they will have given |
How it’s built: Haber in the future (habré, habrás, habrá, habremos, habréis, habrán) plus the past participle dado. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Indicative Conditional Perfect of darse is used to talk about something that would have happened in the past but didn’t due to another action. For example, “me habría dado”, meaning “I would have given”.
In Spanish, the Indicative Conditional Perfect is known as "El Condicional Perfecto".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me habría dado | I would have given |
| Tú | te habrías dado | you would have given |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se habría dado | s/he would have given |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos habríamos dado | we would have given |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os habríais dado | you (plural) would have given |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se habrían dado | they would have given |
How it’s built: Haber in the conditional (habría, habrías, habría, habríamos, habríais, habrían) plus the past participle dado. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
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The Subjunctive Present is used to talk about situations of uncertainty, or emotions such as wishes, desires and hopes. It differs from the indicative mood due to the uncertainty of the events which are being spoken about. For example, “me dé”, meaning “I give”.
In Spanish, the Subjunctive Present is known as "El Presente de Subjuntivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me dé | I give |
| Tú | te des | you give |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se dé | s/he gives |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos demos | we give |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os deis | you (plural) give |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se den | they give |
How it’s built: Yo, ella/él and vosotros are irregular (dé, dé, deis); the other forms are regular. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
Letters in red show where a form differs from the regular pattern.
The Subjunctive Imperfect is used to speak about unlikely or uncertain events in the past or to cast an opinion (emotional) about something that happened in the past. For example, “me diera”, meaning “I gave”.
In Spanish, the Subjunctive Imperfect is known as "El Imperfecto Subjuntivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me diera | I gave |
| Tú | te dieras | you gave |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se diera | s/he gave |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos diéramos | we gave |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os dierais | you (plural) gave |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se dieran | they gave |
How it’s built: Built on the irregular ellas/ellos preterite, dieron: drop -ron and add the -ra endings; nosotros adds an accent (diéramos). The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
Letters in red show where a form differs from the regular pattern.
The Subjunctive Future is used to speak about hypothetical situations, and actions/events that may happen in the future. For example, “me diere”, meaning “I will give”.
In Spanish, the Subjunctive Future is known as "El Futuro de Subjuntivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me diere | I will give |
| Tú | te dieres | you will give |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se diere | s/he will give |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos diéremos | we will give |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os diereis | you (plural) will give |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se dieren | they will give |
How it’s built: Built on the irregular ellas/ellos preterite, dieron: drop -ron and add the -re endings; nosotros adds an accent (diéremos). The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
Letters in red show where a form differs from the regular pattern.
The Subjunctive Present Perfect is used to describe past actions or events that are still connected to the present day and to speak about an action that will have happened by a certain time in the future. For example, “me haya dado”, meaning “I have given”.
In Spanish, the Subjunctive Present Perfect is known as "El Pretérito Perfecto de Subjuntivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me haya dado | I have given |
| Tú | te hayas dado | you have given |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se haya dado | s/he has given |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos hayamos dado | we have given |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os hayáis dado | you (plural) have given |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se hayan dado | they have given |
How it’s built: Haber in the subjunctive present (haya, hayas, haya, hayamos, hayáis, hayan) plus the past participle dado. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Subjunctive Past Perfect is used to speak about hypothetical situations, and actions/events that occurred before other actions/events in the past. For example, “me hubiera dado”, meaning “I had given”.
In Spanish, the Subjunctive Past Perfect is known as "El Pretérito Pluscuamperfecto de Subjuntivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me hubiera dado | I had given |
| Tú | te hubieras dado | you had given |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se hubiera dado | s/he had given |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos hubiéramos dado | we had given |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os hubierais dado | you (plural) had given |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se hubieran dado | they had given |
How it’s built: Haber in the subjunctive imperfect (hubiera, hubieras, hubiera, hubiéramos, hubierais, hubieran) plus the past participle dado. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Subjunctive Future Perfect is used to speak about something that will have happened if a hypothetical situations occurs in the future. For example, “me hubiere dado”, meaning “I will have given”.
In Spanish, the Subjunctive Future Perfect is known as "El Futuro Perfecto de Subjuntivo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | me hubiere dado | I will have given |
| Tú | te hubieres dado | you will have given |
| Ella / Él / Usted | se hubiere dado | s/he will have given |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | nos hubiéremos dado | we will have given |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | os hubiereis dado | you (plural) will have given |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | se hubieren dado | they will have given |
How it’s built: Haber in the subjunctive future (hubiere, hubieres, hubiere, hubiéremos, hubiereis, hubieren) plus the past participle dado. The reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) goes in front.
The Imperative Affirmative is used to give orders and commands, to tell someone to do something. For example, “dése”, meaning “(to you formal) give!”.
In Spanish, the Imperative Affirmative is known as "El Imperativo Afirmativo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | - | - |
| Tú | dáte | (to you) give! |
| Ella / Él / Usted | dése | (to you formal) give! |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | démonos | let's give! |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | daos | (to you plural) give! |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | dénse | (to you plural formal) give! |
How it’s built: Tú takes the ella/él present and attaches te (dáte); usted and ustedes take the subjunctive present and attach se (dése, dénse); nosotros takes the subjunctive present, drops the s and attaches nos (démonos); vosotros drops the final r of the infinitive and attaches os (daos).
The Imperative Negative is used to give orders and commands, telling someone not to do something. For example, “no se dé”, meaning “(to you formal) don't give!”.
In Spanish, the Imperative Negative is known as "El Imperativo Negativo".
| Pronoun | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | - | - |
| Tú | no te des | (to you) don't give! |
| Ella / Él / Usted | no se dé | (to you formal) don't give! |
| Nosotras / Nosotros | no nos demos | let's not give! |
| Vosotras / Vosotros | no os deis | (to you plural) don't give! |
| Ellas / Ellos / Ustedes | no se den | (to you plural formal) don't give! |
How it’s built: No plus the subjunctive present: no te des, no se dé, no nos demos, no os deis, no se den.
Letters in red show where a form differs from the regular pattern.
Darse is an irregular Spanish verb. It is conjugated like dar. In the present tense: yo and vosotros are irregular (doy, dais); the other forms are regular. It is also irregular in the preterite (me di) and subjunctive.
In the present tense (presente), darse is conjugated as: yo me doy, tú te das, él/ella/usted se da, nosotros nos damos, vosotros os dais, ellos/ellas/ustedes se dan. The present tense is used To talk about situations, events or thoughts that are happening now or in the near future. It is also used to talk about facts and truths.
In the preterite (pretérito indefinido), darse is conjugated as: yo me di, tú te diste, él/ella/usted se dio, nosotros nos dimos, vosotros os disteis, ellos/ellas/ustedes se dieron. The preterite is used To talk about actions completed in the past, at a specific point in time.
In the imperfect (pretérito imperfecto), darse is conjugated as: yo me daba, tú te dabas, él/ella/usted se daba, nosotros nos dábamos, vosotros os dabais, ellos/ellas/ustedes se daban. The imperfect is used To describe regular and repeated actions that happened in the past and descriptions of things you used to do.
In the future tense (futuro simple), darse is conjugated as: yo me daré, tú te darás, él/ella/usted se dará, nosotros nos daremos, vosotros os daréis, ellos/ellas/ustedes se darán. The future tense is used To talk about something that will happen in the future.
In the present subjunctive (subjuntivo presente), darse is conjugated as: yo me dé, tú te des, él/ella/usted se dé, nosotros nos demos, vosotros os deis, ellos/ellas/ustedes se den. The present subjunctive is used To talk about situations of uncertainty, or emotions such as wishes, desires and hopes. It differs from the indicative mood due to the uncertainty of the events which are being spoken about.
Dar means ‘to give’ and darse means ‘to give (oneself)’. Darse is the reflexive form of dar, so it always takes a reflexive pronoun – me, te, se, nos, os or se – that matches the subject. The verb itself is conjugated the same way: in the present tense, yo doy becomes me doy. In the affirmative tú imperative the pronoun attaches to the end of the verb, so da becomes dáte.
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